Nan’s News: Change is only constant in our lives

As I write this article for April, it’s the first day of spring and sunny outside. I feel a deep sense of gratitude for the earth and her turning seasons, especially the visible transformation from winter to spring. As long as the winter has remained with us this year, the reality of all the work done in the dark, underground, and out of our sight, is astounding to now see the colorful beauty that is bursting forth each day.

Transformation in the month of April is the “Soul Matters” theme asking us, “What does it mean to be a community of transformation?” As I look around RVUUF there is a lot of transformation happening and I’m aware much of it is out of sight to many, especially if you only attend on Sunday mornings. The engagement of individuals, members and staff, is impressive and I hope you take comfort in that they are actively doing things on behalf of the congregation as a whole. The results will unfold as time marches us forward.

A quote by Charles Darwin describes transformation in this way: “It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.”

Members and staff of RVUUF are being asked to face the upcoming change in Ministerial leadership and all the preparation it takes to make that change. Darwin suggests we become grounded as we are learning how to become responsive to the changes. My only wisdom I have to offer you is that you not deny change and instead notice and appreciate it, and to find ways to be responsive rather than resistant. Change is the only constant in our lives and change at RVUUF is no exception.

I, too, am experiencing change as I face retirement in three short months. I’m aware that many events coming up will be the last time I participate as your Minister, for example, the new members ceremony, and the child dedication service, and flower communion.

Transformation and change include saying goodbye and letting go, just like the season of autumn when leaves begin to fall. Our lives are not much different really. Our response to the change of seasons of our lives is what matters. Sometimes the best response is to just go outside, if only to sit in the sun for a few moments and bask in the light and warmth of knowing all will be well. All will be well. I’m headed there now …

Rev. Nan L. White
RVUUF Developmental Minister